No matter how much you try to read to them as babies, some children become reluctant readers by the time they start going to school. They may struggle with letters or sounds, or just find every other task more interesting. If there is an underlying problem like dyslexia, it’s important to discuss it with your child’s pediatrician. In these situations, it can be difficult for parents to determine whether a lack of interest is simply part of growing up or a sign of something more complex. Dyslexic traits in children, such as difficulty decoding words, may not always be obvious but can significantly affect their ability to engage with reading. If you notice consistent struggles, it may be worth having a conversation with your child’s doctor to rule out any underlying challenges. Early intervention can make a crucial difference in helping children navigate these hurdles with support tailored to their needs.
Meanwhile, there are a few things you can do at home to encourage and support your reluctant reader – here are five suggested ways below!
1. Let your child choose the reading material.
You may not think a comic book is the best thing for your little one to read, but reluctant readers need the freedom to choose what interests them. As long as there are words on the pages, the reading skill is being exercised. This may not be possible at school, but at home, allow your child to freely read what they wish.
2. Offer rewards for reading new books.
Keeping a reading list and rewarding your child when he has reached a milestone is a great way to encourage your reader. Provide a variety of books, so your child can find something that he likes. For every 10 books, for example, you can offer a small reward such as additional TV time. Once they have read 50, something bigger like a trip to the ice cream shop may be called for!
3. Introduce story time.
Being read to is a great way for reluctant readers to pick up a book or magazine of their own. Have fun while reading aloud, allowing the child to speak for a certain character or using funny voices as you read. By being a role model and showing that reading is entertaining, you are likely encouraging them to do it more often.
4. Expose your child to many reading opportunities.
Sitting on a couch and forcing a book in their hand isn’t the only way to try bringing your reluctant reader around. The key is to offer great chances for your little one to practice their reading skills without them realizing it! Have a friend send a postcard in the mail. Use fridge magnets to spell new words for reading. Ask your reader to call out the items on the shopping list while at the store.
5. Make reading interactive and fun.
Just like with story time, making reading enjoyable is a great way to encourage your reluctant reader. Online reading games can make the stories come alive, or make it challenging so your child has to read in order to advance through the levels. Put on a puppet show or play while reading a book, making it fun and getting them involved at the same time!
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Stacie @ Divine Lifestyle says
Thank you so much for sharing this. Two of my kids were easy to get reading. They love it. My third was a different story. I still can’t get a book in those hands unless it’s for a school assignment.
Colleen Lanin says
I love this! I try and try to get my kids to read. We’re making a bit of headway but they still buck me at times.
robin rue says
I am so thankful that my kids love reading, but I hate it, so I get it. Love your tips!!
Tracey says
These are excellent tips. Sometimes getting kids to want to read can be an uphill battle, but these tips may make the road ahead a bit easier.
Meagan says
These are some great tips. Sometimes it also means looking to see if a book might be a bit over their level and adjusting accordingly.
Melissa says
Reading this made me thankful that my kids liked to read and were good learners. Great tips for those who need it.
Pam says
My son didn’t like reading that much. We always let him choose books he wanted to read.
Jeanine says
Love this! What great tips. i have a couple kids right now who are not into reading so much, and one especially. So this will be helpful!
My Teen Guide says
Great pieces of advice! I also believe that making reading more fun and interactive would help a lot to encourage a child to love books. A rewards system for milestone achievements, just like you mentioned is also a good suggestion.
Jocelyn @ Hip Mama's Place says
These are fantastic tips and ideas to help your child to want to read more. My boys are very good at reading and love reading even when they were at a very young age. I guess I’m lucky in that way 😉
Shannon Gurnee says
I love this blog post! These are definitely some great ways to support your reluctant reader!
Crystal says
Since I love reading, it seemed shocking that my kids might not feel the same. These are great tips to help foster a love of reading in our little ones.
Louise Bishop says
From the time I was born, my mother gave us so many great opportunities to read. I grew up into an avid reader.
Adrianne Betz says
It’s so hard to hear about how many kids don’t have a desire to read. Growing up, I was all about books. Great tips!
Kita Bryant says
What a great way to foster a love of reading! I’m thankful my kids love it.
Kiwi says
I was never this kind of kid. I loved reading books but I can see how today kids do not like to read physical books due to technology. Reward them and make it fun!
Tonia @TheChattyMomma says
LEtting my children choose the books is so important. If I do it they don’t seem to be as interested. I like to buy new books to give them plenty of options in our home library. We have never ending shelves everywhere.
Kelly Hutchinson says
I think making reading interactive is a great way to encourage a reluctant reader. I am lucky to have kids who loves to read.